Make a Contract

Did you make a contract with your husband or wife? I never did it before, but I want to now.

At first, I want to talk about daily habits. The first, we can't ask each other what time has to sleep, and what time has to get up. The second, Neil picks the child up to school at seven fifteen every morning, and Elsa can't chatter endlessly. Neil always takes shower once back from office.

And then, we will share the household chores. Neil will wash the dishes after the dinner. Elsa will clean the house and take care of the balcony. Elsa will wash the clothes and fold them, and then put them away. Neil will make a list of groceries every week and will the shopping. Neil has to in charge the budget for groceries. Gary who our son has to be took shower by his mother till he can take it by himself.

Next is communication, we don't have to open up expect really necessary. We will work out the problem and find a compromise if we have conflict. We have to respect each other and not to criticize each's quirk or habits. We can't see text message and mail letter without approve each other.

Finally, we can't interfere each other. Neil who make more money is the breadwinner for the family. If we want to revise the contract, we have to agree it both sides. Hope this contract could be knew by my partner.