Boy

The computer can't turn on like as usual even I tried many times. After few minutes, I had checked with Gary about this matter. Why the computer can't turn on now? He replied that he has no idea about this problem. His mother said he couldn't hear the music this afternoon.
But I said he didn't touch this computer. Now, I got it. He lied to me. I said why you lied to me about this matter? But I think some reasons from his teacher: the kid lie to the parents due to that they afraid that you will punish them. And the other is they want to get something which doesn't belong to them.

My little boy afraid I will bang on his hand, so he said he didn't touch my computer. But he never know I just to want to know how to repair the computer. I told him it's a bad habbit if you keep lying to anyone. But it seem that the sentence can't work for him. He still can't change this habbit. I have tried to discuss with his teacher about this problem. And they said you may let them realized you believe their words. And they sould said more and more fib. As you know, the lie will be broken finally. And they will know, it's not a good sultion to solve the problem.

Another situation is that they want to have something. My boy told me he wants a plane due to the class needed. I know it's not real. And I said why your class needs this kind of toy? He said his classmates have one except him. So he needs a plane as well. Otherwise, he can't catch the step of his class. He never know it doesn't have any business about class needed, and it's just his request. Another example, he asked us to buy a CD player because of that he want to listen the English class. At first, I felt so amazing how I have this well-behaved of child. But the truth is he want to play any music except the English. How can I say?

Even though the child might lie to his parents or friends, they just hope to avoid the punishment or want to get something. Why we can't give more patiences to our children? We could tell them the reason lying to people is not a good way to save the problems instead to hit or scold them.