2/08/2011

The best way of life is "be yourself".

55 stories were wrote in this book getting from my study-mate Kevin. And these stories are telling you how to be yourself. Let you find yourself again. Many people lose their selves due to ingratiating someone's wish. For example, you are looking forward to being rich man, or be a doctor... etc. Are you really happy if you are a rich man or have a great job? I want to share some feeling of this book to you, and hope you can love yourself as I am.
The first feeling is love. You have to understand how to love yourself, and take your body and mind in good care, and then you have abilities to love the someone who you want to. And this kind of love is truly and happily. You must feel that you always lose something or do something for someone without your hoping if you don't know how to love yourself. But you wouldn't feel happy if you have this feeling. And what the people will do if they love their selves? The answer is giving. If you feel that you can offer your love to someone. It's happiness. Let's try to offer, to give. You may realize that you will have different feeling.

The second is desire. We may feel sad when we can't get what we want. Or we may hope someone who stay next to us can match our hope. And we would feel angry or disappointed. But, we really have to learn how to stop our desire, and ask ourselves that is it your really want? There are so much desire in our life, and we can't catch every desire every time. Therefore, we might consider that is it really our need? You may feel that pain disappeared.

Our life is controlling in our hands. We can't always follow anyone's words; otherwise, we never have the real happy in our short life.

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